Who’s that BETCH?
Hi babe, I'm Victoria — the Balanced Betch.
Spiritual Life Coach, Intuitive Healer, and the woman who's been exactly where you are.
I've always felt connected to something bigger. Even as a kid, I knew there was more to life than what I could see. But knowing that and actually living from it — those are two very different things.
At 19, a series of traumatic experiences cracked me open. Years of disconnection from myself came to a head, and I was forced to face the thing I'd been avoiding: there had to be more to life than this. That was the moment my spiritual self woke back up — and I haven't looked back since.
But here's the part I don't skip over: even after a decade of deep healing work, I hit another wall. A few years ago, everything felt stuck — my relationships, my purpose, my life. I was doing all the things and somehow felt more lost than ever. Like I was in a pressure cooker with no release valve.
That's when it hit me. No one was coming to save me. I had to be my own saviour.
And more than that — I finally woke up to what all the healing had actually been for. Not more healing. Living my life. Fully, unapologetically, as exactly who I am. I stopped waiting and started moving — and for the first time, my outer world began to reflect my inner one.
That's the work I guide women into now. Not an endless healing journey, but the life waiting on the other side of it.
If you're ready to stop circling and start living — I'm so glad you found me. 🤍
Read more of my story below
Everyone has a story. Here’s mine.
So I started looking.
Not with a plan — just with curiosity and a longing I couldn't ignore. I bought the books, the crystals, the tarot decks. I started meditating, journalling, practicing yoga. I travelled to places I'd been quietly dreaming about for years. I began, slowly and then all at once, to dive deep into myself.
Along the way I found teachers, healers, and guides who saw something in me I hadn't fully claimed yet. Through their eyes, I began to recognise it too: I wasn't just someone who needed healing. I was someone called to facilitate it.
But here's what no one tells you when you step onto this path — healers need healing too. Deeply, honestly, sometimes uncomfortably. The more I did this work, the more I realised I was doing it for a reason. Every experience, every unraveling, every dark night was bringing me here. To this work. To these women. To you.
I am the teacher. And I am always the student.
I didn't arrive here with all the answers. I arrived here having asked all the same questions you're asking now — and having done the work to find my own. That's what I'll help you do.
Not find my answers. Find yours.
You deserve a life that feels as good on the inside as you're trying to make it look on the outside. I'm here to help you build it. 🤍
I was the kid who talked to ghosts.
Not metaphorically. My parents have stories — the kind that made adults in the room go quiet. From the time I could speak, I felt things other people couldn't see. I knew things I had no way of knowing. There was always something humming underneath the surface of ordinary life, and I could feel it.
But the world has a way of teaching sensitive kids to shrink. To be logical. To stop talking about the things that can't be explained. And slowly, the way it does for so many of us, that connection went quiet.
By my early 20s I barely recognised myself. Years of people-pleasing, living out of alignment, and giving my energy away to everyone but me had left me hollow. I didn't know who I was underneath all of it — or if there was anything left to find.
What I didn't know then was that everything I'd been through wasn't breaking me. It was building the foundation for everything I was about to become.
The gifts didn't disappear. They were just waiting for me to come back to them.
Victoria’s Certifications
Reiki Master
Spiritual Life Coach
Hypnotherapist
Intuitive Energy Healer
Full Spectrum Doula